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What can we do to stop divorce in the current generation and keep our culture remain same?

In this 21st Century, as the Technology is grown, there is no time to share the feelings between a husband and wife in this fast moving world because both were working. They have their own individuality. In India, we have the culture of saying for one husband one wife only. Nowadays there are many who divorce the other immediately because of misunderstanding. If they dont share their feeling how can they understand the other’s feelings. Both are equally educated, then too they ask for seperation. so, what can be done to stop the divorce and to safeguard our culture?

Hi Rajeshwari.

Its really nice ques to attempt the answer this, all though i decided today , not to aswer any ques as not having mood for that, but really yr ques tempted me to answer this..anyways…
U know, separation is always easiest way to get rid of unwanted or misunderstood relationship …but it was not so commen in our part of world before just like western countries ..the reason was..”tolerance”…we always wanted to keep it moving inspite of some problems in married life as we had tolerance for our better half..but ..now times has changed , which leads change in mentalty of people.now they dont want to continue if the situation like that.
As per my opini’n its not always wrong also , if u dont have any child , otherwise its crime for hus’d and wife to depart , as child always need parents togather., but also having said that, if u dont have a child then ..satisfaction frm our partner is relavant things, it not sure that, if u change to someone after getting divorce, yr new paertner will fulfill yr expectation .
cuture is always refers to somewhat “past”..as time changes and that leads to change in mentality of people, so mentality plays important role in this not education…so ..i dont think..anyone can do much more in this, but in this cases mostly its women , who suffers more after diovorce also.

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