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What can I do to Save My Marriage after committing a number of adulteries and leaving my wife?
Throughout my 6 year marriage I commited about 6 adulteries. My wife has found out about my affaires after I told her that it is over and left the country to accept a job. She went through a an emotional trauma. She began smoking and was almost ready to commit a suicide. She kept calling me every day to threaten me, to curse me, to offend me. I tried to ease her pain – but nothing could help. I wanted out – because she was becoming mentally unstable. I could not communicate with her.
Now, I realized that I am deeply in love with her. I started to make big changes – I am now a faithful, loving, romantic and caring husband, but her feelings for me have vanished. She does not even communicate with me.
I took her on a cruise where our relationship improved, but as soon as she got back home to her mother(who wants to kill me) – she does not want me to call her. We live separately, I suspect she is dating other people.
I am now suicidal – what can I do to get my wife back?
The problem here is you are just now thinking about your
marriage and not when you cheated on her six times
before. Taking someone on a cruise after haveing hurt
them for six years is not enough to heal the marriage.
You say you are now faithful but seperated from her and
all you really have is time as it will take time for her to
believe that you have changed. Now you will have to
PROVE to her during your trial period of seperation that
you really have changed and are faithful to her as her
healing process will take awhile. To get your wife back
you will have to work extra hard in regaining her love as
that is what it will take for her to come back to you: and
you do not need to commit suicide as if you say you love
and want your wife back then you should concentrate on
that an nothing else and if you really really try hard and
you’re sincere about getting her back then she will see
that and will if you have given her the reason to.
Good luck.
Save My Marriage: Focus on How You Make Up
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